Jew in the suburbs


Hectic Friday, Blessed Shabbat
October 8, 2008, 1:35 am
Filed under: Jewish, Judaism, Shabbat, Shabbos, Shul, Torah | Tags: , ,

 

 

Dear Blog Readers,

 

This past Friday afternoon I did my usual Shabbat preparations.  I was able to leisurely get dressed and get last minute things in order because I had been preparing since the night before.  I was ready to leave my house early and expected to be at my Shabbat destination in plenty of time before candle lighting.  The problem was I arranged for transportation to pick me up and that transportation was at least a half hour late.  Then, I was informed that the driver had to drop someone else off before me, and then he got lost.  I sat in my seat quietly and nervously glancing at my watch.  I called someone on my cell phone to check and see when candle lighting was ( I always like to double check things) The person on the other end of the phone told me that candle lighting was at least a half and hour earlier than I thought it was.  You see, only about a week ago I got my new Jewish calendar, and the problem was that when I looked up candle lighting, I accidentally looked at candle lighting for the first Shabbat in September instead of the first Shabbat candle lighting in October.  I hung up the phone quickly and said to the driver, “I hate to complain, and would not normally do so but, I have to get somewhere for religious reasons.  He turned to me and said “What do you want me to do?”  I said, I don’t mean to be disrespectful to you in any way, and I don’t want you to leave anyone stranded.  I really need to get there before the sun goes down.  He again asked me what I wanted him to do and said “give me 5 minutes.”  I said all right but he either needed to get me to my planned destination or take me back home.  We were still closer to my home than my planned destination and I was confident I could make it home and light candles there.  I wasn’t confident that I could reach my planned destination which was at least 20 minutes away.  I said again, I don’t mean to come off as disrespectful in any way but if you don’t get me there I can’t fulfill my obligations, and I am in the wrong.  I have to get there for religious reasons.  I have to light candles.  When I said I had to light candles, he said, I understand and I will do the best that I can.  He got on the highway instead of taking the streets and went as fast as he could safely.  I kept looking at my watch; the sun seemed to be mocking me.  It was in my eyes and getting lower and lower.  My stomach was in knots; I said please G-d let me get there on time.  I was filled with stress.  The driver did get me to the place I needed to be and, helped me with my suitcase.  I thanked him and said G-d bless you.  The knots in my stomach were subsiding.  I knew I still had minutes left and I wasn’t quite into the extra 18.  I went into the house, lit, said the blessing, and went to Shul filled with such relief and such gratitude.  I was calm again.  

 

This past Shabbat was Shabbat Shuva, the last Shabbat before Yom Kipper, and the women’s section seemed more packed than it usually is on a Friday night.  I sat down with my Siddur as the sound of the Shabbat evening service melodies floated to my ears.  I felt so inspired and so loved and so part of something.  I was so grateful that I hadn’t missed one moment.  I was so grateful to feel so connected and all my worries disappeared.  I thought to myself this is where I am and this is where I should be.  I thought about how I may not have appreciated the candle lighting and Shabbat service as much if it were not for that hectic rush to be there on time.  If it weren’t for that rush, maybe I wouldn’t have noticed the calm, maybe I would not have felt as connected to the people around me who also came to Shul.  Shabbat allows us to slow down I also think that a rush before Shabbat comes in, shows us that the slow down is needed in our lives.  May you all be sealed in the book of life for a good life and a year full of only blessing.

 

 

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3 Comments so far
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I’m glad you made it in time. Nice post.

Comment by ilanadavita

This is a lovely post. I’m happy to see you made it on time.

Comment by jewwishes

Thanks for stopping by! Keep reading!!

Comment by jewinthesuburbs




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